I LOVE them!!!! There were so many to choose from, so it was really hard, here are a few we choose.
Sunday, November 14, 2010
Maternity Photos
Here are some of the Maternity Photos we had done!
I LOVE them!!!! There were so many to choose from, so it was really hard, here are a few we choose.
I LOVE them!!!! There were so many to choose from, so it was really hard, here are a few we choose.
Thursday, November 11, 2010
A Night at Emerg, and Not for a Baby!
So, it's been 3 days since I have been on maternity leave now. Busy and lazy days all at once.
Tonight was a doozy though....Alan came home from work at around 10pm, this is when I woke up from my nap. Actually, Kobe had woken me up a little earlier, than I was having some pre-labour cramping. All was fine though, of course I thought I was in labour, but that wasn't the case...as it's usually not.
Anyway, from bed, I asked Alan to put my ring away for me, that's when I went to take it off, and it was stuck. This wasn't anything but new for me. I don't normally wear my rings though because my knuckles are huge and sometimes I loose layers of skin when removing them. (They are sautered together), but I had a lunch date, and wanted to wear them! Good enough reason don't you think?
After trying it wouldn't come off, no way was it coming off. I started freaking out....naturally. Alan and I googled some tips, and we tried, ice, soap, elevating the hand, Windex, etc. I then asked him to cut if off, and he said he didn't have anything here.
He suggested we go to the fire department as it would be better than emerg, at the inter-city hospital (closest). So, we loaded up Kobe (not sure why...) and headed to the fire department. Turns out we didn't know where it was. There was an accident on the road we were travelling on, and I suggested we ask the firemen there where the fire station was, as surely they would know...wouldn't they. Turns out they did. The one guy came across to my side of the car, and felt the ring and my finger and says "That is really stuck, and your finger is really swollen" Ya, no shit! hahaha Good thing, he wasn't too hard to look at. They were wrapping things up on the accident scene, so 2 of them went back to the station, and Alan, Kobe and I followed. We went in, and they tried, literally for an hour to do what they could. They mainly tried the dental floss trick. My finger got worse and worse, and they asked what the "trauma" was from. I guess my finger looked bruised, although it wasn't. The rest of the guys came back, and all agreed that they wouldn't be able to help me, as they couldn't get their tool under the ring and on my skin, so they said I would have to go to the hospital. The entire time I was there, I was shaking, my entire body, and I wasn't cold, I think I was just freaking out a little. Alan was sweet though, he was still in his work clothes, and had his Gerber on him which did help to string the dental floss through, and he rubbed my shoulder the whole time.
So, off to emerg, with a quick back track home to drop Bitey off.
We went to triage, (after both of us going mental trying to find a way into the hospital, at night, in the inter-city, with sick people everywhere. It was really scary!) So, she tells me to have a seat, but also asks if I want my finger looked at. I said no, I just want the damn ring cut off. She then asked about the trauma.....WHAT TRAUMA!!!! So, "Cory" the RN comes over, and looks at it, and doesn't even know if he will be able to get his tool under the ring to cut it off. Eventually he does, and it hurt like a MoFo let me tell you. It was a great opportunity to breathe through the pain and try to relax. hahaha. He cuts out a piece, and then it still doesn't come off, I now have 2 sharp pieces of gold slicing through me, so he cuts another, and nothing. Alan suggests a better place to cut it. By this time, I was so annoyed, and his tool had cut part of my palm as well. So, he does what Alan says, and I am DYING of pain, the ring was slicing into my finger cutting it, and I also had no feeling in my finger. My circulation was getting real low. Then, all of a sudden, my ring is flying across the room, both the wedding and engagement, and the other few pieces cut from it. We gather it all up, and I am good to go. I have a nice size cut on my finger from the sharp edge digging into me, and his tool slicing through my hand as well.
Immediately I felt relief and was so happy, then I cried because my ring is literally destroyed. I am sure it can be fixed....but don't know if I will. After all, I don't have a job anymore, and I don't think it will be cost cheap, and am terrified to ever put it on again! I left the hospital with a biohazard bag of ice, and pee cup with ring remnants in it.
On the way home, I looked at Alan and said "Only me eh?" He agreed!
I still can't bend my finger, it's still swollen, and Alan told me not to try, and of course I want to so much now! I better go to bed. It is times like tonight, when a nice drink would be lovely!!!
Check out the action. I couldn't take any pics of the fire station or the hospital of course, but here is what I did get....
Tonight was a doozy though....Alan came home from work at around 10pm, this is when I woke up from my nap. Actually, Kobe had woken me up a little earlier, than I was having some pre-labour cramping. All was fine though, of course I thought I was in labour, but that wasn't the case...as it's usually not.
Anyway, from bed, I asked Alan to put my ring away for me, that's when I went to take it off, and it was stuck. This wasn't anything but new for me. I don't normally wear my rings though because my knuckles are huge and sometimes I loose layers of skin when removing them. (They are sautered together), but I had a lunch date, and wanted to wear them! Good enough reason don't you think?
After trying it wouldn't come off, no way was it coming off. I started freaking out....naturally. Alan and I googled some tips, and we tried, ice, soap, elevating the hand, Windex, etc. I then asked him to cut if off, and he said he didn't have anything here.
He suggested we go to the fire department as it would be better than emerg, at the inter-city hospital (closest). So, we loaded up Kobe (not sure why...) and headed to the fire department. Turns out we didn't know where it was. There was an accident on the road we were travelling on, and I suggested we ask the firemen there where the fire station was, as surely they would know...wouldn't they. Turns out they did. The one guy came across to my side of the car, and felt the ring and my finger and says "That is really stuck, and your finger is really swollen" Ya, no shit! hahaha Good thing, he wasn't too hard to look at. They were wrapping things up on the accident scene, so 2 of them went back to the station, and Alan, Kobe and I followed. We went in, and they tried, literally for an hour to do what they could. They mainly tried the dental floss trick. My finger got worse and worse, and they asked what the "trauma" was from. I guess my finger looked bruised, although it wasn't. The rest of the guys came back, and all agreed that they wouldn't be able to help me, as they couldn't get their tool under the ring and on my skin, so they said I would have to go to the hospital. The entire time I was there, I was shaking, my entire body, and I wasn't cold, I think I was just freaking out a little. Alan was sweet though, he was still in his work clothes, and had his Gerber on him which did help to string the dental floss through, and he rubbed my shoulder the whole time.
So, off to emerg, with a quick back track home to drop Bitey off.
We went to triage, (after both of us going mental trying to find a way into the hospital, at night, in the inter-city, with sick people everywhere. It was really scary!) So, she tells me to have a seat, but also asks if I want my finger looked at. I said no, I just want the damn ring cut off. She then asked about the trauma.....WHAT TRAUMA!!!! So, "Cory" the RN comes over, and looks at it, and doesn't even know if he will be able to get his tool under the ring to cut it off. Eventually he does, and it hurt like a MoFo let me tell you. It was a great opportunity to breathe through the pain and try to relax. hahaha. He cuts out a piece, and then it still doesn't come off, I now have 2 sharp pieces of gold slicing through me, so he cuts another, and nothing. Alan suggests a better place to cut it. By this time, I was so annoyed, and his tool had cut part of my palm as well. So, he does what Alan says, and I am DYING of pain, the ring was slicing into my finger cutting it, and I also had no feeling in my finger. My circulation was getting real low. Then, all of a sudden, my ring is flying across the room, both the wedding and engagement, and the other few pieces cut from it. We gather it all up, and I am good to go. I have a nice size cut on my finger from the sharp edge digging into me, and his tool slicing through my hand as well.
Immediately I felt relief and was so happy, then I cried because my ring is literally destroyed. I am sure it can be fixed....but don't know if I will. After all, I don't have a job anymore, and I don't think it will be cost cheap, and am terrified to ever put it on again! I left the hospital with a biohazard bag of ice, and pee cup with ring remnants in it.
On the way home, I looked at Alan and said "Only me eh?" He agreed!
I still can't bend my finger, it's still swollen, and Alan told me not to try, and of course I want to so much now! I better go to bed. It is times like tonight, when a nice drink would be lovely!!!
Check out the action. I couldn't take any pics of the fire station or the hospital of course, but here is what I did get....
Here I am back in bed, thinking there is no way out of this without cutting off my finger!
Leaving the hospital, the swelling has SIGNIFICANTLY gone down at this point. A side profile pic would make anyone sick, my knuckle is so swollen, and feels like if I pricked it, it would leak fluid.
My precious ring, in 5 pieces....The 3 little pieces are the underneath part of the band, and the other 2 are the engagement and wedding band.
Monday, November 8, 2010
38 Weeks and Waiting...
Well, 38 weeks, and waiting. Could be today, could be weeks away still. The waiting game is killing me. Today was the first day of my Maternity Leave (I should apply for EI I guess). I woke up at my normal time, as I had my regular weekly appointment. All went well. I hadn't gained any weight, other than a few ounces or something meaningless like that, since last week anyway.
The anticipation really is killing me though. Other than feeling 38 weeks pregnant, I am healthy and feel well. I have a lot of pressure and cramping, and sleeping is a hit and miss activity for me.
I have noticed a lot of changes in my body and constantly think I am in labour. Every new movement, pain or stretch makes me think this is the beginning. And it is, just not REAL labour. Hard when I don't know exactly what to expect. I have been told when it happens, I will know, and I know this, but it still irritates me. Alan is waiting very impatiently too. The other night in bed, he says to me "13 more days until your due date" I had no idea he was counting. Maybe he is just anticipating his week off work! haha He is no longer allowed to work out of town. The overtime would be great as he suprised me earlier in the week by announcing...so casually.... that he bought a new toolbox. I can see him taking the little one on a shop tour and stopping to show him all the new drawers of his box and explaining the tools he loves so much! Alan also commented the other day that I am a lot more happier these days and my mood throughout the pregnancy has been great. He was really suprised that I haven't at all been a raging hormonal bitch. Looks like men also only hear horror stories about pregnant women and childbirth. The next person who tells me their horrible story, I am going to simply tell them to "shut it".
I have decided which photos from our professional shoot I am going to purchase, and will post them as soon as I have them in a digital form.
Here are a couple pics, the most recent anyway, at 38w0d. (Fri, Nov 5th)
Mind the quality though, it seems to Alan that the best way to take a photo is to do it as quick as possible, focusing is optional, as is waiting for the flash to fully go off. I look especially tiny in this pic. Although everyone constantly says I look tiny. I've really only gained belly weight, nothing elsewhere. Which I think is a good thing anyway! I am measuring well though, am healthy and the doctor isn't at all concerned, so all is good!
The anticipation really is killing me though. Other than feeling 38 weeks pregnant, I am healthy and feel well. I have a lot of pressure and cramping, and sleeping is a hit and miss activity for me.
I have noticed a lot of changes in my body and constantly think I am in labour. Every new movement, pain or stretch makes me think this is the beginning. And it is, just not REAL labour. Hard when I don't know exactly what to expect. I have been told when it happens, I will know, and I know this, but it still irritates me. Alan is waiting very impatiently too. The other night in bed, he says to me "13 more days until your due date" I had no idea he was counting. Maybe he is just anticipating his week off work! haha He is no longer allowed to work out of town. The overtime would be great as he suprised me earlier in the week by announcing...so casually.... that he bought a new toolbox. I can see him taking the little one on a shop tour and stopping to show him all the new drawers of his box and explaining the tools he loves so much! Alan also commented the other day that I am a lot more happier these days and my mood throughout the pregnancy has been great. He was really suprised that I haven't at all been a raging hormonal bitch. Looks like men also only hear horror stories about pregnant women and childbirth. The next person who tells me their horrible story, I am going to simply tell them to "shut it".
I have decided which photos from our professional shoot I am going to purchase, and will post them as soon as I have them in a digital form.
Here are a couple pics, the most recent anyway, at 38w0d. (Fri, Nov 5th)
Mind the quality though, it seems to Alan that the best way to take a photo is to do it as quick as possible, focusing is optional, as is waiting for the flash to fully go off. I look especially tiny in this pic. Although everyone constantly says I look tiny. I've really only gained belly weight, nothing elsewhere. Which I think is a good thing anyway! I am measuring well though, am healthy and the doctor isn't at all concerned, so all is good!
Perhaps the next blog I do, will contain pictures of my son????
Wednesday, October 27, 2010
Work...Smurk!!!
Well, the day I have been anticipating forever is almost here....my last day of work!
Don't get me wrong, I love my job and all, but I also love not working!!!! I also know that these words will bite me in the ass. Because I am "so social" I think it will be very hard for me to be home everyday, but I also know that little Mr. Bond won't allow me anytime to be bored.
The past couple weeks at work have been insane. One Administrator quit 2 Friday's ago, and I have been training my replacement for a number of weeks now. She is doing really well, so I no longer have to sit and watch her work, I can work myself. Our Property Manager is on holidays for 2 weeks, and again, we had 1 woman quit. I really thought my last few weeks were going to be really relaxing and laid back. Crappers, was I wrong! I have worked harder these last couple weeks than I have in the last couple months...combined! hahaha Monday and Tuesday this week I took off. Technically, I called in sick, I didn't really "take it off" and even then, I didn't call in, I BlackBerry Messenged my replacement, and then emailed my boss yesterday afternoon.
Here is me at work, using the vacationers office. I look happy...I'm not....I should be an actress and not a Property Administrator! hahaha (Only 7 working days left now!!!)
Please check out our new compluter area!!!
Don't get me wrong, I love my job and all, but I also love not working!!!! I also know that these words will bite me in the ass. Because I am "so social" I think it will be very hard for me to be home everyday, but I also know that little Mr. Bond won't allow me anytime to be bored.
The past couple weeks at work have been insane. One Administrator quit 2 Friday's ago, and I have been training my replacement for a number of weeks now. She is doing really well, so I no longer have to sit and watch her work, I can work myself. Our Property Manager is on holidays for 2 weeks, and again, we had 1 woman quit. I really thought my last few weeks were going to be really relaxing and laid back. Crappers, was I wrong! I have worked harder these last couple weeks than I have in the last couple months...combined! hahaha Monday and Tuesday this week I took off. Technically, I called in sick, I didn't really "take it off" and even then, I didn't call in, I BlackBerry Messenged my replacement, and then emailed my boss yesterday afternoon.
Here is me at work, using the vacationers office. I look happy...I'm not....I should be an actress and not a Property Administrator! hahaha (Only 7 working days left now!!!)
I had a weekly prenatal appointment on Monday, and it left me VERY uncomfortable. I had an exam, which I will refuse if they try again this coming Monday. Sore back, sore and swollen hands, sciatic nerve, etc etc. As it turns out, things are progressing nicely, and dialation has even started. Which is normal and expected for just over 36 weeks anyway! More changes have happened since Monday, and I am stil convinced this baby will come early. We should almost make a pool or bet or something, just for fun! I told Alan though this morning, that he cannot go out of town anymore overnight. Not as things are the way they are. Although, I could stay as I am now for weeks, or I could have this baby today! (Although, I hope not!!!!...kinda, as much as I would love to not be pregnant anymore and meet my little man, I also want him to remain in there until 38 weeks at least!!!...I dunno!)
Even though I feel like crap or uncomfortable almost all the time, I am doing well. Still healthy, and thats the important part. I have been nesting like crazy though. Alan has been gone a lot, and I find it the perfect time to actually get things done. And of course to do it my way as well. I FINALLY managed to clean the linen closet. Mildly redecorated the bathroom (more to come). I went to Ikea, bought the Rocking Moose (Horse) and got that built...by myself....and man oh man, was it a beotch to do. I also bought a new computer desk. This was fun. It took me forever to choose, and I got lost in Ikea a couple times, and only partially shed a tear. I selected the perfect desk, and then another shopper helped me into the car with it. I knocked on my neighbours door to help me get it into the house, and he wasn't home, so I had to drag it in myself. Done! Then to set it up! I did just fine! I am actually very good at stuff like this. It's when I am offered help that I freak out and can't do it. I did go back and get the neighbour to help me move the old ugly hutch dressing table crap POS thing out, I dragged as much as I could, but then it got stuck, so I needed help. So, by getting rid of 2...maybe 3 pieces of furniture I was able to make a usable space for the new computer area, as well as free up half our living room for giant baby plastic contraptions!!!!
Please check out our new compluter area!!!
I went to a Silpada Party on Saturday too, it was great fun! Good food too! Now I just have to wait until my necklace and earrings come in.
Sunday we had our Maternity Photo Session done. It was great, and Alan and I actually enjoyed our time together. The photographer was so nice and so understanding, and she loved my shirt and hair! Yay!!!! hahahaha
AND....Congratulations to Elsie, Adam and Ella on their new little family member...Freddie!!! Congrats guys, whats a beautiful family!!!
Saturday, October 16, 2010
35 Weeks
35 Weeks already! Although, these last couple weeks have been really hard on me physically, and I don't see the upcoming weeks becoming an easier, I am thrilled that we are almost done with pregnancy, and about to embark on parenthood!!!
Here I am at 35 Weeks in the babies room!
Here I am at 35 Weeks in the babies room!
Monday, October 11, 2010
Our Babies Room is Finished!!!
Little Mr. Bond's room is finished. We just need a baby now!!
Here are some pics of the process:
Here are some pics of the process:
I was helping to build the bookshelf.
Here we are, all set up!
This picture shows the wall picture well! The one that I had to fight for! I am so thankful I did!
You can also see the little area rug. We had a hard time finding something suitable that was the perfect size, and that wasn't going to cost hundreds of dollars. This one was the perfect size, colour and texture, and was a steal of a deal!
The dresser/changetable, wall pictures, laundry basket and diaper pail.
The glider/rocker chair! I wanted colourful curtains! And these are perfect. I also love that they don't go to the floor. Alan was hesitant about the colour of course, but I reassured him that they are boy red and not girl red....must have worked!!!! They add a nice splash of colour I think.
The bookshelf. The lighthouse, is Blinky, all my ON friends will know who he is. Alan's parents gave it to us years ago when we were home for the town reunion. The case of books are Alan's Thomas the Tank Engine books from when he was little. He and his uncle made the little case for it! The bear on the bottom left is something I made in ceramics in 1992. And the little double decker bus at the bottom is something we got when this baby went to England for the first time....18 weeks in utero!
Right when you walk into the room there is a little curve to make. This is where we put his inital hooks for his cute hooded towel, sleep sack and I put Alan's booties on there. I couldn't resist, they are so cute! And I have no idea where I will find some for this little guy as they don't make them like they used to!
All the clothes cleaned, folded and organized!!!!! I loved doing this, and I realized we have far more clothes than originally thought!
A view from the other side of the room (standing at the window) showing the closet!!! It looks like we can't opent he closet door, but we actually can.
The bed all made. Aunt Zoe and Uncle Zane gave us the lamb, he makes sounds. And this is Alan's little Kirby from when he was little. I still haven't been able to find the perfect lovey for this little guy yet. I am constantly looking though!
Friday, October 8, 2010
What a Mover & a Shaker!
Look at this little guy move!!! It was a miracle I caught it on video actually. He was moving like crazy, and I figured I would try to grab a video, and he did it once more right away to this extent.
It's moments like this that I think I will miss. As I have expressed before I don't particularly love being pregnant as some women do. But these signs of live MY SON shows make those hard days all that much better!!!!
I am definately ready to have this baby. Of course at 34 weeks I would like to wait a couple weeks at least just so he is big enough and his lungs are fully developed.
Check out the video. The best part is within the first 15 seconds or so. I held the camera quite still, and you can see the slight up and down movements of me breathing. The movements that you can see the best are the right to left ones, and again the best part is within the first 10-15 seconds.
It's moments like this that I think I will miss. As I have expressed before I don't particularly love being pregnant as some women do. But these signs of live MY SON shows make those hard days all that much better!!!!
I am definately ready to have this baby. Of course at 34 weeks I would like to wait a couple weeks at least just so he is big enough and his lungs are fully developed.
Check out the video. The best part is within the first 15 seconds or so. I held the camera quite still, and you can see the slight up and down movements of me breathing. The movements that you can see the best are the right to left ones, and again the best part is within the first 10-15 seconds.
Monday, October 4, 2010
I am all Showered!!!
This past weekend was SO busy!!!! Friday night, I got home from work, after almost being rear ended by some asshole who shouldn't even be allowed to have a license, only to get home, give pup a kiss then head off to the hockey game with Alan, Danny and Christina. Great night out!
Saturday, I got up early, did some errands, came home, showered, attended my baby shower, then went home to bed. Sunday, I was up early again, went out with Alan, bought a crib, stroller, tub and some misc items, came home, showered, back to Babies R Us for a crib mattress, then went to a birthday paty for a 1 year old, then to our last HypnoBirthing class. We got home, did a quick power clean of the house, and then I colloapsed in my bed, and woke up this morning!!!
Wow!!!!!
The Baby Shower was GREAT!!! I am so thankful to Steph for hosting it for me. There were a few special people missing in attendance, but everyone who came were all very good friends, and it was great to see everyone all at once. And of course to celebrate the coming of little Youngblood!!
Steph's decorations were amazing too. Instead of the usual streamers etc, she had little clothes and socks and such spread around the houue, and hanging off the walls. The cake was outstanding. I think that she had Buddy from Cake Boss do it, it was just that good!
We played some good games, where we had to match the celebrity names with the baby names. The other game was baby trivia. For example...Do you know how many bones a baby has when born......300, compared to our 209. Apparently, they have more because they fuse together! And, the largest baby ever born naturally was 22lbs. OMG!!!! At the door, the wonderful co-host (Caitlin) was in charge of getting everyones guess for the amount of M&M's in the sippy cup! I was way off on this one!!!
Caitlin also did an excellent job of decorating the driveway in sidewalk chalk. She had an area for me to park that indicated it was my spot, and all others would be towed. The other half of the driveway was decorated in sidewalk chalk as well, welcoming me with a very colourful version of my name, and she had drawn pictures of balloons. I LOVED that friends and family from out of province also sent giftd and cards to the hosts house for the shower. I was so suprised actually. It was so meaningful and I felt to loved that they cared enough to do so, and to plan it all! I was definately touched!!!! Thanks guys!
Everyone who wasn't able to attend the shower has been asking me what we did and what I received as gifts. (I even brought the truck instead of the car so that I could transport all the loot home with me!!! hahaha)
We receieved so many wonderful gifts, so this is going to be hard to recap it all:
- Glider/Rocker Chair wioth Ottoman
- Excersaucer
- Swing
- Floor Play thing
- Several Blankets....even a knitted homeade one from my friend Andrea, so thoughtful, I love it!!!- Clothing
- Sippy Cups / Spoons, etc.
- Several Toys
- Gift Cards (Babies R Us, Walmart, The Bay)
- Cloth Diaper / Wipes
- Towels / Face Cloths- Changetable Pad
- Misc TML attire
- Books
And of course I have received several other things throughout my pregnancy from several different people. I also had the shower with my sisters and Mom. I could go and grab the items and grab pics of them, but really I couldn't be bothered at the moment, as the wall paint is still drying, and I don't want the pets going in, plus I am exhausted!!!!
Here are some pictures!!!
The drive way when I pulled up!
The front door!
The amazingly done cake!
The set up of the livingroom, that is the glider/rocker that the Springers got for me!
Guessing the amount of M&M's in the sippy cup. My guess....146, actual answer...200.
Playing one of the games!
Gift opening! (Notice the decorations on the wall!)
What a cute little toy!
The Lovin' Hug Swing from Lindsay and Cory!!!
The cake with me, the host Steph and the co-host Caitlin!
The aftermath of the cake!
Me with the balloons!!!
Some clothes I received.
Blankets and such!
Stuff for bums and mouths!
Books and toys!!!!
The large items!
This is the room before the painting.
This is the room after the painting, and after the building of furniture! I love how the colour turned out! Very warm, and exactly the colour of "neutral" that we were looking for!
The crib, all built and ready for a baby!
The chair from the Springers! Not sure yet if this will be the placement of it.
The dresser/changetable.
Sunday, September 26, 2010
Empowered!!!
I went alone to the HypnoBirthing course tonight as Alan is out of town. I wish he could have been there as we did the birthing plans. Actually, it was a hand out and we just check off things we do or don't want. If anyone wants a copy let me know, and I will scan and email it to you!
This class was really empowering and I am ready to do this. I can honestly say that I am no longer scared or nervous to give birth. I think I will always fear any "special circumstances" (emergencies) that can arise, but this is normal I am sure. I am ready for a natural childbirth though.
If you have any questions on what Hypnobirthing is or what it entails, please ask me. The desciptions online can be vague and seem very new age, and really is just about knowing our body and what to expect, and how to relax to let your body do as it is naturally designed to do so!!!
This class was really empowering and I am ready to do this. I can honestly say that I am no longer scared or nervous to give birth. I think I will always fear any "special circumstances" (emergencies) that can arise, but this is normal I am sure. I am ready for a natural childbirth though.
If you have any questions on what Hypnobirthing is or what it entails, please ask me. The desciptions online can be vague and seem very new age, and really is just about knowing our body and what to expect, and how to relax to let your body do as it is naturally designed to do so!!!
Wednesday, September 22, 2010
Advice/Opinions/Comments I Have Received!!!
Well all give and get advice from time to time, and sometimes the advice is great and worthy, and at other times, you just want to punch the person who said it in the face.
Here is some of the "advice" or opinions or anecdotes I have been given in the last 8 months or so. My Ideas are in brackets beside!!!
1. Good luck cloth diapering, you will be covered in shit. (Yes, well, I can't wait to take a poo filled diaper and rub is all over my arms, legs and chest, you idiot!)
2. You are taking grocery store brand prenatals??? (Will this kill my baby?)
3. You're not going to an ob/gyn...good luck. (They are SURGEONS, why do I need a surgeon?)
4. No baby in the bed with you, you'll have your work cut out for you. (Um...WHAT?????)
5. A natural childbirth, you will never be able to do this without pain medication (Right, because I am the 1st woman EVER to want a natural childbirth)
6. Let me pick a name for you. (What, are you INSANE????)
7. Your crotch is going to burn, its the worst feeling ever. (I would imagine my crotch on fire is painful yes.)
8. Listen to my horrible labour story. (Why would I want to hear that?)
9. Will you keep the placenta? (Oh yes, most definitely, I have a nice place on my mantel all picked out already..WTF???)
10. Just make sure to choose a good name (Because, you thought I would choose a horrible name?)
11. You don't understand because you aren't a mother. (Apparently only genius' have children then????)
12. You don't know what its like to support people financially. (Oh right, at the age of 28 with a job, a car, a house, etc etc etc...I have no idea the value of a dollar)
13. You aren't sleeping well because the baby is preparing you for never sleeping again. (Okay, so really, parents go months straight with NO sleep, sure they do.)
14. It's going to be so hard for you, such an adjustment (Ya, well, no shit asshole, but lets not forget that I married an amazing man, who is anticipating this baby as much as I am.)
15. Oh wow, how did that happen? (I had unprotected sex days prior to ovulation, you idiot)
16. How are you feeling? (My reaction varies depending on who asks this)
17. Can I touch your belly? (Says the stranger in the Subway Sandwhich line up)
18. Oh, look at you all preggers! (I HATE the word preggers, I actually even prefer to be called knocked up over preggers, and yes, I am aware of how I look!)
There are many more of course, but the one that pisses me off the most are when people tell me that I don't have a clue on things "because I am not a mother" Being a mother doesn't make you a GOOD mother, it simply only alerts the world that sometimes idiots (usually the people who say this) can have kids too...and they do!!! Why do people say that? Why can I not have an opinion on something, or know something because I don't have my own children. I have spent years around kids, and of course used to be one. Also, I can say that certain products on the market are crap, and simply ways to make money, don't we all as consumers have the right to have an opinion on something that is available for sale????
For example: At a store one day, I laughed and shook my head, the saleswoman looked at me, and asked what was funny. I said that I was shocked that someone would make this, and then think that people would buy it. Please see below: (It's a little tent you put over the penis when changing the baby, so you don't get sprayed.) She said to me, that if I was having a boy, it would come in very useful. Ya, sure it would!!!
There are of course many people who say great things to pregnant women, or hold open the door at the mall, offer you a hand when reaching something from up high, let you in front of them in the bathroom, all these great wonderful things. Those moments I love and appreciate in people, its the rude and clueless ones that piss me off!!!
Please share other ridiculous things you have heard when pregnant.
Here is some of the "advice" or opinions or anecdotes I have been given in the last 8 months or so. My Ideas are in brackets beside!!!
1. Good luck cloth diapering, you will be covered in shit. (Yes, well, I can't wait to take a poo filled diaper and rub is all over my arms, legs and chest, you idiot!)
2. You are taking grocery store brand prenatals??? (Will this kill my baby?)
3. You're not going to an ob/gyn...good luck. (They are SURGEONS, why do I need a surgeon?)
4. No baby in the bed with you, you'll have your work cut out for you. (Um...WHAT?????)
5. A natural childbirth, you will never be able to do this without pain medication (Right, because I am the 1st woman EVER to want a natural childbirth)
6. Let me pick a name for you. (What, are you INSANE????)
7. Your crotch is going to burn, its the worst feeling ever. (I would imagine my crotch on fire is painful yes.)
8. Listen to my horrible labour story. (Why would I want to hear that?)
9. Will you keep the placenta? (Oh yes, most definitely, I have a nice place on my mantel all picked out already..WTF???)
10. Just make sure to choose a good name (Because, you thought I would choose a horrible name?)
11. You don't understand because you aren't a mother. (Apparently only genius' have children then????)
12. You don't know what its like to support people financially. (Oh right, at the age of 28 with a job, a car, a house, etc etc etc...I have no idea the value of a dollar)
13. You aren't sleeping well because the baby is preparing you for never sleeping again. (Okay, so really, parents go months straight with NO sleep, sure they do.)
14. It's going to be so hard for you, such an adjustment (Ya, well, no shit asshole, but lets not forget that I married an amazing man, who is anticipating this baby as much as I am.)
15. Oh wow, how did that happen? (I had unprotected sex days prior to ovulation, you idiot)
16. How are you feeling? (My reaction varies depending on who asks this)
17. Can I touch your belly? (Says the stranger in the Subway Sandwhich line up)
18. Oh, look at you all preggers! (I HATE the word preggers, I actually even prefer to be called knocked up over preggers, and yes, I am aware of how I look!)
There are many more of course, but the one that pisses me off the most are when people tell me that I don't have a clue on things "because I am not a mother" Being a mother doesn't make you a GOOD mother, it simply only alerts the world that sometimes idiots (usually the people who say this) can have kids too...and they do!!! Why do people say that? Why can I not have an opinion on something, or know something because I don't have my own children. I have spent years around kids, and of course used to be one. Also, I can say that certain products on the market are crap, and simply ways to make money, don't we all as consumers have the right to have an opinion on something that is available for sale????
For example: At a store one day, I laughed and shook my head, the saleswoman looked at me, and asked what was funny. I said that I was shocked that someone would make this, and then think that people would buy it. Please see below: (It's a little tent you put over the penis when changing the baby, so you don't get sprayed.) She said to me, that if I was having a boy, it would come in very useful. Ya, sure it would!!!
There are of course many people who say great things to pregnant women, or hold open the door at the mall, offer you a hand when reaching something from up high, let you in front of them in the bathroom, all these great wonderful things. Those moments I love and appreciate in people, its the rude and clueless ones that piss me off!!!
Please share other ridiculous things you have heard when pregnant.
Tuesday, September 21, 2010
Seriously Baby.....I'm Your Mother, And I Say NO!!!
Seriously, this baby is trying to escape. Well, I am sure that he really isn't, but it sure feels that way! A couple weeks ago, I noticed that the movements were very different and I think it is just because he is getting so big. Then about a week ago, I felt a tightening in my belly area, and wasn't sure if it was "Braxton Hicks" contractions or not. In my course we call it "Practice Labour." We actually use a lot of different wording in the class. It's all a mind set, and I think it does help.
Anyway, the class was great, and I definitely am experiencing practice labour. It is really interesting that my body does this. Everyday it amazes me more and more, that the female human body was designed to give birth. Your body knows exactly what to do, and when to do it. I can't even describe the feeling of these practice surges, but it basically feels as I guess it should. My uterine muscles contracting. It seems like all day I have been having them. More so than not anyway. I am scared that he wants out, but I also know that this is normal and it is my body preparing for labour. I also sometimes feel pressure on my cervix area, this I assume is normal as well. Startles me everytime though.
We learn a lot about the body in the HypnoBirthing classes, and as a result, I am ready for whatever is going to happen and no longer look at childbirth as the scariest event I will ever go through....well, today, at this moment that's how I feel, tomorrow or later this evening could be a completely different story. But, that's a good start that I only sometimes freak out now! haha Actually in the class this past Sunday, I was so pumped I wanted to have the baby that night. I told everyone it was "Now or Never" at which point, Alan almost died of embarrassment. hahaha I also shocked him when I asked her how I knew I was in labour and ready to go to the hospital. I know though, that I did all the other first timers a favour as well! haha. It was previously mentioned that we wait to go to the hospital/birthing centre, wherever, until we are basically ready to deliver. Well, how do I know. I mean, I may think I am 10cm dilated, but really only be 2cm. And I wouldn't want to go to the hospital, just to get sent home again. Here is the kicker though.....I think that I only just realized that when you are "checked" it is not a visual inspection, but a vaginal exam. They feel your cervix to measure (fingers not rulers). So, that brought me to another questions....can our husbands do this or can we do it ourselves, etc. She said yes, it is perfectly possible, and accurate. I will have to google this later on! haha Anyway, we learned about how to hear our body and to understand the signs of approaching delivery. When to stay home, and when to get in the car, we also learned when not to get in the car! I think I learnt more on Sunday about childbirth, than I have in my entire 28 years. I just hope that Alan took notes!
On a side note...I am still feeling, well, pregnant! I technically have just over 8 weeks to go. I also have only 32 working days left as well! A replacement for me has been hired, and she seems perfect for the job. She starts on Monday, and I look forward to fully meeting her, and of course training her. I think she will pick up quickly, and be able to figure things out! Yay!!!!
Alan is gone now for an unknown amount of days, and in that time, I will try to do some nesting.....(am I suppose to dread it, or look forward to it? hahaha) I need to organize and clean out the linen closet. I also have to clean the construction mess from the window install, and then Steph will paint the room, hopefully next week when she is back from Mexico. I am so jealous I am not there as well.
My shower is coming up too! I can't wait. It has been months on the planning, and I can't believe the time is finally approaching.
Oh...and people are still convinced I am small. Seriously, everyone I see says I am so small for the amount of weeks that I am. I always reply that I don't feel small at all. In fact, I feel massive, and I always feel so full, and bloated. I hate eating supper, because I feel like crap afterwards, and usually puke it up anyway. I also feel like I constantly have to pee. I did go to the mall this weekend though, and didn't cry because the bathroom line up was too long. It didn't prove effective last time! I think that because it is my first that I am smaller than some. Also, I am not cramming my face every second I get, so I haven't really gained a ton of weight elsewhere. (Yay yay yay!!!!!) I also figure that because my torso is long in comparison to my legs that my belly is stretched longways, rather than straight out. I have no idea. Maybe I should take it as a compliment. But it always comes off as an insult.
And another cute comic!!!!
Anyway, the class was great, and I definitely am experiencing practice labour. It is really interesting that my body does this. Everyday it amazes me more and more, that the female human body was designed to give birth. Your body knows exactly what to do, and when to do it. I can't even describe the feeling of these practice surges, but it basically feels as I guess it should. My uterine muscles contracting. It seems like all day I have been having them. More so than not anyway. I am scared that he wants out, but I also know that this is normal and it is my body preparing for labour. I also sometimes feel pressure on my cervix area, this I assume is normal as well. Startles me everytime though.
We learn a lot about the body in the HypnoBirthing classes, and as a result, I am ready for whatever is going to happen and no longer look at childbirth as the scariest event I will ever go through....well, today, at this moment that's how I feel, tomorrow or later this evening could be a completely different story. But, that's a good start that I only sometimes freak out now! haha Actually in the class this past Sunday, I was so pumped I wanted to have the baby that night. I told everyone it was "Now or Never" at which point, Alan almost died of embarrassment. hahaha I also shocked him when I asked her how I knew I was in labour and ready to go to the hospital. I know though, that I did all the other first timers a favour as well! haha. It was previously mentioned that we wait to go to the hospital/birthing centre, wherever, until we are basically ready to deliver. Well, how do I know. I mean, I may think I am 10cm dilated, but really only be 2cm. And I wouldn't want to go to the hospital, just to get sent home again. Here is the kicker though.....I think that I only just realized that when you are "checked" it is not a visual inspection, but a vaginal exam. They feel your cervix to measure (fingers not rulers). So, that brought me to another questions....can our husbands do this or can we do it ourselves, etc. She said yes, it is perfectly possible, and accurate. I will have to google this later on! haha Anyway, we learned about how to hear our body and to understand the signs of approaching delivery. When to stay home, and when to get in the car, we also learned when not to get in the car! I think I learnt more on Sunday about childbirth, than I have in my entire 28 years. I just hope that Alan took notes!
On a side note...I am still feeling, well, pregnant! I technically have just over 8 weeks to go. I also have only 32 working days left as well! A replacement for me has been hired, and she seems perfect for the job. She starts on Monday, and I look forward to fully meeting her, and of course training her. I think she will pick up quickly, and be able to figure things out! Yay!!!!
Alan is gone now for an unknown amount of days, and in that time, I will try to do some nesting.....(am I suppose to dread it, or look forward to it? hahaha) I need to organize and clean out the linen closet. I also have to clean the construction mess from the window install, and then Steph will paint the room, hopefully next week when she is back from Mexico. I am so jealous I am not there as well.
My shower is coming up too! I can't wait. It has been months on the planning, and I can't believe the time is finally approaching.
Oh...and people are still convinced I am small. Seriously, everyone I see says I am so small for the amount of weeks that I am. I always reply that I don't feel small at all. In fact, I feel massive, and I always feel so full, and bloated. I hate eating supper, because I feel like crap afterwards, and usually puke it up anyway. I also feel like I constantly have to pee. I did go to the mall this weekend though, and didn't cry because the bathroom line up was too long. It didn't prove effective last time! I think that because it is my first that I am smaller than some. Also, I am not cramming my face every second I get, so I haven't really gained a ton of weight elsewhere. (Yay yay yay!!!!!) I also figure that because my torso is long in comparison to my legs that my belly is stretched longways, rather than straight out. I have no idea. Maybe I should take it as a compliment. But it always comes off as an insult.
And another cute comic!!!!
(Do I really need his permission for use????,
if anything I am letting people know about him and his fantastic comics!!!!)
Tuesday, September 14, 2010
30 Weeks!!!
Here I am at 30 weeks along! (Taken on Fri, Sept 10, 2010).
I had my regular appointment just yesterday, and am now going every 2 weeks! The baby's heartbeat was 140bpm. Funny how as soon as she brings the Doppler towards me, we can already hear it. The first few times when we heard it at 10 weeks or so, it took a couple minutes to find it. His movements have also changed a lot. He is just getting so big, and seems to be stretching alot more now, and less room to do it.
For the most part I am feeling well. People always ask me how I am feeling, and the only thing I can really say is that I feel pregnant. I am tired more now than I was in my early weeks of pregnancy. My back is less sore now, but my sciatica nerve is worse then it was. I still puke or dry heave almost daily, and I constantly feel full. I feel like I am going to explode some days. But all in all, I would say I feel good for the most part, as good as I can anyway.
I stole this saying from a friends blog, I thought it was fitting. "It seems to me that being pregnant is like being young: You can't appreciate how awesome it is while you are in the midst of it."
The HypnoBirthing classes are going well. We have had 2 classes so far, and have another 4 more to go. I can say that I have taught myself to be able to relax into a deep state. Something I never thought I would be able to do.
Today is a big day. I am at home right now, listening to the window installers, smash away at the old window. We are getting a new window is the baby's room today. After they leave, I have to hurry to the southside and write my Law and Risk Management exam. I am terrified I am going to fail. Some things I know really really well, and for other parts, I have NO idea. I did the practice exams, and Alan helped me, but it seems as though I don't understand the questions. Very confusing. If I do fail, then I simply just pay to write again. Of course though, I will have to go to my employer and tell him that I failed.....that will be embarrassing!
I did get to sit in on a couple interviews last week for my position. That was neat. The one woman was INSANE!!! Like, actually insane, and the other couple I liked, and thought they would be great for the job. Just another 8 weeks or so, and I am officially on Maternity Leave. OMG, I get to take Maternity Leave, and then almost a year of Parental Leave!!! Wow!!!
I had my regular appointment just yesterday, and am now going every 2 weeks! The baby's heartbeat was 140bpm. Funny how as soon as she brings the Doppler towards me, we can already hear it. The first few times when we heard it at 10 weeks or so, it took a couple minutes to find it. His movements have also changed a lot. He is just getting so big, and seems to be stretching alot more now, and less room to do it.
For the most part I am feeling well. People always ask me how I am feeling, and the only thing I can really say is that I feel pregnant. I am tired more now than I was in my early weeks of pregnancy. My back is less sore now, but my sciatica nerve is worse then it was. I still puke or dry heave almost daily, and I constantly feel full. I feel like I am going to explode some days. But all in all, I would say I feel good for the most part, as good as I can anyway.
I stole this saying from a friends blog, I thought it was fitting. "It seems to me that being pregnant is like being young: You can't appreciate how awesome it is while you are in the midst of it."
The HypnoBirthing classes are going well. We have had 2 classes so far, and have another 4 more to go. I can say that I have taught myself to be able to relax into a deep state. Something I never thought I would be able to do.
Today is a big day. I am at home right now, listening to the window installers, smash away at the old window. We are getting a new window is the baby's room today. After they leave, I have to hurry to the southside and write my Law and Risk Management exam. I am terrified I am going to fail. Some things I know really really well, and for other parts, I have NO idea. I did the practice exams, and Alan helped me, but it seems as though I don't understand the questions. Very confusing. If I do fail, then I simply just pay to write again. Of course though, I will have to go to my employer and tell him that I failed.....that will be embarrassing!
I did get to sit in on a couple interviews last week for my position. That was neat. The one woman was INSANE!!! Like, actually insane, and the other couple I liked, and thought they would be great for the job. Just another 8 weeks or so, and I am officially on Maternity Leave. OMG, I get to take Maternity Leave, and then almost a year of Parental Leave!!! Wow!!!
I love the shadow in this picture!
Friday, September 10, 2010
Celebrate with CANDY!!!
Today marks 30 weeks! Wow! I know I say it all the time..but seriously, where has the time gone? 10 weeks left until my due date! Good thing Alan bought the car seat today!!! Yay!!
I have an appointment on Monday, and I haven't actually weighed myself for about a month now. Today alone, I ate a pack of Fruitella, a Pepsi, 4 packs of Popeys Smokes..I mean Candy Sticks, and an entire pack of Sweetarts. And this of course, was only the snacks. If we include meals, add in a bagel with extra butter and pasta baked with cheese! hahaha
I have warned everyone in the office that if I collapse or start seizing, it is just a sugar overload! haha
I have an appointment on Monday, and I haven't actually weighed myself for about a month now. Today alone, I ate a pack of Fruitella, a Pepsi, 4 packs of Popeys Smokes..I mean Candy Sticks, and an entire pack of Sweetarts. And this of course, was only the snacks. If we include meals, add in a bagel with extra butter and pasta baked with cheese! hahaha
I have warned everyone in the office that if I collapse or start seizing, it is just a sugar overload! haha
Tuesday, September 7, 2010
Too Cold To Come Out To Play
Little SWB has been moving around very differently lately. I don't yet know what he is doing. Earlier today I thought he was trying to escape. I reminded him it was too cold for him out in the non amniotic world. Seemed to work, he settled down shortly thereafter. However, at that time when I thought he was trying to escape, I was dry heaving a puking into the bathroom sink. Maybe it was too much strain on my abdomen.
We did the Hypnobirthing class on Sunday, and I think we both enjoyed it. Alan wasn't too alarmed, and no babies or goats were sacrificed around a fire, and no blood was drank either. It really wasn't too meditative for us. Read up on what exactly it is or read my previous entry for the class description. We learned a couple simple breathing exercises, and we learned to relax a bit. Kinda yoga-like, but just sitting and not being in a downward dog or some ridiculous body movement. We did an exercise where we had to imagine ourselves in a kitchen, feel the heat of the oven, grab a cutting board, feel the lemon....yada yada yada, and eventually we had to bite into the lemon. Well, aside from freaking out (calmly) because I couldn't imagine a kitchen, I did feel my mouth water when biting into the lemon. No, seriously, it took me forever to choose a kitchen, I initally walked into mine, then screamed and ran (dishwasher is having issues, and LAST NIGHTS dishes are everywhere), then I was in Alan's parents, back to mine, and then in an imaginary one. Aside from that, it was good. I have to practice the breathing this week and listen to the CD as well.
Alan and I did learn lots though, and it seems like it will be great. I understand what it is, and why it is important. I have to remember the "Fear, Tension, Pain" drawing. And of course, actually apply it. We learnt about the uterine muscles and how they work when in a "surge" and how to help the muscles work properly so not to delay labour.
We also got to watch a few quick deliveries where the women practiced Hypnobirthing. I was amazed that Alan didn't puke or faint, and generally didn't seem disturbed. He commented on the fact that I missed most of the video as I was watching him.
Alan and I cracked a lot of jokes, and laughed alot. It was fun for us.
He is working like a crazy man now, so I hope he can make the next one. It really wouldn't be a date night without him.
AND...without further adieu, here are the most recent photos I have (taken minutes ago). I wish Alan was here so he could have taken them better, but with the self timer (which is my normal way of doing it anyway) it may have been better to see a side by side, and of course, I couldn't figure out the side by side!
We did the Hypnobirthing class on Sunday, and I think we both enjoyed it. Alan wasn't too alarmed, and no babies or goats were sacrificed around a fire, and no blood was drank either. It really wasn't too meditative for us. Read up on what exactly it is or read my previous entry for the class description. We learned a couple simple breathing exercises, and we learned to relax a bit. Kinda yoga-like, but just sitting and not being in a downward dog or some ridiculous body movement. We did an exercise where we had to imagine ourselves in a kitchen, feel the heat of the oven, grab a cutting board, feel the lemon....yada yada yada, and eventually we had to bite into the lemon. Well, aside from freaking out (calmly) because I couldn't imagine a kitchen, I did feel my mouth water when biting into the lemon. No, seriously, it took me forever to choose a kitchen, I initally walked into mine, then screamed and ran (dishwasher is having issues, and LAST NIGHTS dishes are everywhere), then I was in Alan's parents, back to mine, and then in an imaginary one. Aside from that, it was good. I have to practice the breathing this week and listen to the CD as well.
Alan and I did learn lots though, and it seems like it will be great. I understand what it is, and why it is important. I have to remember the "Fear, Tension, Pain" drawing. And of course, actually apply it. We learnt about the uterine muscles and how they work when in a "surge" and how to help the muscles work properly so not to delay labour.
We also got to watch a few quick deliveries where the women practiced Hypnobirthing. I was amazed that Alan didn't puke or faint, and generally didn't seem disturbed. He commented on the fact that I missed most of the video as I was watching him.
Alan and I cracked a lot of jokes, and laughed alot. It was fun for us.
He is working like a crazy man now, so I hope he can make the next one. It really wouldn't be a date night without him.
AND...without further adieu, here are the most recent photos I have (taken minutes ago). I wish Alan was here so he could have taken them better, but with the self timer (which is my normal way of doing it anyway) it may have been better to see a side by side, and of course, I couldn't figure out the side by side!
The bare belly with Bitey-Pup too!
Ah crap, I forgot to use all small letters, looks like I forgot about my new blogging style! hahaha
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